April A-Z Challenge 2017: Theme Reveal #AtoZChallenge

Hi Folks,

So it’s April and for bloggers, especially slackers like me, it is time once again to consider joining the annual Alphabetical Blog challenge. The best thing about these challenges is that they motivate you to seriously write and when there is a theme , write in a focussed manner. So after a break, I am hoping to give it a go with 26 posts for 26 of the 30 days, barring Sundays.

This year, the theme that comes to mind has to do with women: ‘women power’, the ‘inspiring woman’, the ‘representative woman’, and also women not just of the present, but of the past, including the remote past. While feminism and women’s empowerment are considered fairly modern phenomena, in actuality, these themes have been around from many millennia. While many of them feature in our history, the epics and myths of a culture are also storehouses of these stories, of women who became legends and continue to inspire generations.

And therefore, here is my theme for 2017:

“The Sacred Feminine: Inspiring stories of WOMEN from History, Mythology and Legends of INDIA“

Let the countdown begin !

© Lakshmi S. Menon & VOICE’nVIEWS

X is for (E)XISTENTIAL, (E)XCAVATING, and (E)XITING

Day Twenty Four: April A-Z Blogging Challenge 2015  : Mental Health Awareness — layers and nuances

  

The (E)XISTENTIAL anxiety we live with:

Why are we here on earth? Does human life have meaning beyond the seen ?  Is there a purpose to my life? What happens after death ? Why do I feel as if time is running out ? If these are some of the questions that have troubled you at different times, then you are probably facing not just anxiety, but existential anxiety. You are in the company of great thinkers and philosophers like Kierkegaard, Sartre, and others who have wrestled with these thoughts. These are thought that are not just everyday worries, but deal with the very basis of our life on earth.

Even after a person is fed, clothed and housed, educated, gets a job or a life-partner, has a happy family, possessions, friends and generally has a good life, sometimes even these may seem like ‘not enough’. It is then that they turn to excitement and often end up doing weird things. Some turn to religion or spirituality. Others discover meaning in art, music, literature et al. At such times, human beings are searching for something larger than their small personal selves. They start reflecting on the deeper meanings of life. Sometimes a crisis can set this off. Events may happen that upset the whole apple cart and confronted with pain or sudden change, these questions about life emerge from within. It is as though they were always there, waiting to be (e)xcavated from our innermost selves. Two things may happen at this point. Either we embark on a journey of self-discovery or the distractions of the world, ‘dailiness’, again overcomes us and we retreat back to the safe world we usually inhabit.

People whose brains work in a different way are usually seen to be inordinately sensitive to these fundamental questions about human existence. It is seen in the way they respond to the world around them. They are not just more sensitive, as in get more deeply affected by what is around them, they also empathise more. That is how you see them feeling, reacting and finally searching for answers and often finding them too. Do not underestimate the power of a sensitive mind, an empath, a mentally disturbed soul. They might just be wearing a disguise that hides a person of wisdom!

We all have to (e)XIT from life one day. What better way than to have contributed in some manner to deciphering the puzzle of life, for oneself and in however small a measure for others too 🙂

W is for Wound, Willingness and the Warrior

Day Twenty Three: April A-Z Blogging Challenge 2015  : Mental Health Awareness — layers and nuances

  
The wound of the soul:

Who is not wounded by life ? Physical, mental, psychological, spiritual — we carry the scars of so many wounds. Some healed, some raw, some on their way to be healed and some neglected and suppressed deep within. Pain is a part of life and wound its manifestation. Since we anyway have to live with these let us then make the best of them. How, one might ask? Ah, therein lies the great enigma of life. How does one embrace something painful and why must we do it anyway? The answer to ‘why‘ lies midway between — the choice to heal or the choice to become bitter from all that wounding.  It is ‘midway’, because though the desire to be healed is universal (who wants pain ?) no one can shake away bitterness or negativity completely from the mind. It is a constant battle between the desire to move past and the urge to just give in. Well, I am talking here of mental wounds, some forgotten, some suppressed, some alive and festering, some healed naturally by time. A wound brings alive the awareness that all is not well — pay attention! Were it not for that niggle of uneasiness and that stab of agony or even that numbing grief, we might never even look within. So wounds force us to pause and take a survey of all that has been stuffed away underground, in the deepest recesses of the mind. Some define these aspects of ourselves as archetypes —  the ‘inner child’, the ‘victim’, and so on. The answer to ‘why’ is then, embracing a wound will ultimately lead to a healing. It is the first step in this process.

To make wounds a step in healing needs the quality of willingness. This is the ‘how‘ part. Long ago, I read in that insightful book by Louise L. Hay, You Can Heal Your Life, some words that have stayed with me all these years. She had written this universal answer to the question ‘how’ that said, ” Be willing and the Universe will take care of the HOW” ! I still feel a thrill when I read these words. Instead of getting caught up in the complexity of the ‘how’ of embracing the wound, of the intricacies of healing and getting caught in a mental loop, this sentence advices us to let go, to be willing, to be open and simply ALLOW universal forces to act. This is not some random, fatalistic act, but one that is full of resolve as well as openness.

This attitude then makes us spiritual warriors on the path to wholeness and healing. We are warriors who have decided to take on the ‘evil’ forces that disrupt our minds and lives. It needs the initiative and intrepidity of a warrior to face inner enemies that threaten our sense of well-being. But if we wish to heal, this is one choice that we have to keep making!

Q is for Quest, Quality and Questioning norms !

Day SEVENTEEN: April A-Z Blogging Challenge 2015  : Mental Health Awareness — layers and nuances

Also including this post in the WordPress writing challenge ignoring the prompt but going along with today’s twist: pay attention to your sentence lengths and use short, medium, and long sentences 

Writing 101: Day ELEVEN: Length Matters (in sentences)

  

Quest, Quality and Questioning norms:

In the busy world that we inhabit, the word ‘quest‘ has a quaint sound to it. It throws up images of knights on horses and maidens waiting in castles to be rescued from ferocious dragons by the said knights ! We do not have time for all this romantic stuff that was better suited for a more relaxed world. And yet, knights, dragons and damsels in distress are who we face everyday in life. Come again, you might say. Yes, even in this world of crazy routines and endless tasks, damsels in distress and dragons breathing fire do exist. Times have changed and it is we who need to be rescued from dragons, the mental dragons inhabiting the subconscious, subterraneous terrains of our mind. We are the ‘damsels in distress’ and we are the ‘Knights in shining armour’ too. 

So how does it all fit in ? To be truly healthy, to be physically as well as mentally fit, to live lives of quality and not merely of quantity (by the mindless accumulation of material wealth), the subconscious has to be faced, nurtured and healed. Mental illness in any of its several manifestations, mild or severe, is a ‘wake-up call’ to undertake this healing. It is the deep calling to the deep. Something within desires that the conscious mind undertake this task of healing for the greater good of the person. The knight in shining armour, full of purpose is our will and the damsel in distress is the inner creative being seeking release to fully and authentically express itself. When the two meet, the psyche celebrates at this restoration of health ! No one else can undertake this journey on our behalf. It is a deeply personal, private and intensely spiritual quest that ultimately leads to great inner fulfilment.

What of those who are not mentally ill? Are they not called to this journey? No easy answers, but perhaps the inner journey becomes possible when one yearns for something more meaningful in life. When one tires of this endless rigmarole termed ‘life’ and stops wearing masks and the constant indulgence in frenetic activity, life will respond with an opportunity to go deeper. Interestingly, when you start questioning hitherto accepted norms of society and life, when you are no longer willing to let life go by, things start moving, sometimes in unexpected ways. Sometimes this may very well happen through pain. Perhaps a wound to the psyche sets this off. Ultimately, it is all good.

© Lakshmi S. Menon & VOICE’nVIEWS

J is for JOURNEY and JOURNALLING

Day TEN: April A-Z Blogging Challenge 2015  : Mental Health Awareness — layers and nuances

  

Journey and JOURNALLING :

Life is like a journey that we begin seemingly without consent, with no choice of locale or travelling companions. This is the external bit, where we are born into families we did not choose, grow in environments over which we have little control and finally as adults may be too tired to change things when we are able to. We might have fallen into a rut! But the inner process is slightly different. In the INNER JOURNEY, we do have choice — the choice to think and choose our attitude as Victor Frankyl said, and this might make all the difference in life.

 

Just as we make many preparations for an outer journey, carrying with us several knick-knacks that we may need, the same is applicable for the inner journey too. We need TOOLS that will provide direction and help us to measure progress. One such extremely useful tool that helps us to gauge our inner journey, without depending on outside help is to maintain a journal. Julia Cameron, the well-known author of two books on creativity and the creative process, titled, The Artist’s Way and The Vein of Gold emphasises the importance of JOURNALLING as a process of inner healing and creative recovery. In what she terms as ‘morning  pages’, she  advises aspiring artists to do some much needed spring-cleaning of their subconscious by a process of ‘stream-of-consciousness’ writing as one of the first tasks before the day really begins.

Try it! It worked for me 🙂

© Lakshmi S. Menon & VOICE’nVIEWS

I is for INSOMNIA, ISOLATION and the INDIGO child

Day NINE: April A-Z Blogging Challenge 2015  : Mental Health Awareness — layers and nuances

  

Insomnia and Isolation:

A good night’s sleep is one of life’s primary requirements, something often taken for granted. If you want the day to be full of verve, you need to have slept peacefully in the night. No one knows the value of this better than the person suffering from insomnia or sleeplessness. While an overactive mind is the primary cause for insomnia, there are often emotional causes too. Sometimes traumatic events in life lead to depression and one of its symptoms is sleeplessness. You keep obsessing about events, reactions, responses and ‘what-ifs’. The mind goes on and on in a loop and before you know it, it’s morning and time to get up! Sometimes you might have depression and you may not even be aware of it, for this is not a topic to bring out in ‘polite’ conversations where social masking ( the ability to put on different masks and hide who you really are, in order to ‘fit in‘ ) is akin to multi-tasking in the ‘normal’ world ! No, you just don’t or can’t talk about not having slept without getting weird looks and knowing smiles with one or two sarcastic remarks thrown in. Why dig your own social grave, you think and remain quiet. This then leads to isolation. You slowly begin to realise that there is more to sleeplessness than you thought. Being sleepy and sad does not win friends. In fact, you lose the few that you had! Actually it is good riddance, but you don’t know that yet. You have, without your consent, joined the dubious section of society termed as the ‘mentally ill’ (do NOT flinch). Here are some common symptoms:

• You might be in a crowd, but you feel extremely isolated. 
• You see all these chirpy, ‘happy’ people around you and you can’t seem to join in. God, what IS wrong with me, you wonder. 
• You may want to belong, to feel ‘in with the crowd’, but something doesn’t give. You might even fake it — trying to contribute to superficial conversations, boring topics, inane gossip and the like, but not for long. It is too exhausting
• You cannot bear hypocrisy and much of social interaction calls for this
• You withdraw into a shell, you stop going out,  
• You become irritable, anti-social almost and the only remedy might be curling up in bed with a P.G. Wodehouse !!!

The INDIGO child:

All the symptoms mentioned above and many more that include high levels of integrity, dislike of obsolete systems and so on, fit in very well with a social group of individuals identified as the INDIGO group. So what has merely been termed as depression, being a misfit might have deeper roots. (WARNING: if you are extremely logical, have scientific pretensions and think all other points of view apart from the scientific-intellectual- materialistic to be inferior, then you can stop reading now. Au Revoir !)

As our planet moves into a higher frequency of vibration as witnessed in the several earth changes going on since 1999, manifesting forth as natural calamities, and also growth of awareness among humans as evinced by greater connectivity, openness, destruction of structures and systems, global cooperation, there is more and more evidence of special individuals born to aid this process of spiritual growth. This phenomenon was observed in the sixties and more so from the seventies onwards with the birth of children who showed several well defined characteristics, often and unfortunately mistaken as ‘mental illness’. These children were called the INDIGO children. This wave of the seventies, much like the baby boomer generation after the World Wars seem to be Nature’s way of assisting in the evolution of the planet. Here are some characteristics of these evolved souls who are veritable ‘misfits’ in society, but have a larger role to play in the scheme of things.

INDIGO ADULTS HAVE THE FOLLOWING ATTRIBUTES:

    Highly intelligent, though may not have demonstrated in school.

   Very creative

    Their first question is WHY?

        Repetitious work in school or career deters them

          (EARLY ON) Rejected authority of teachers, OR seriously wanted to rebel, but didn’t DARE, usually due to parental pressure.

       May have experienced early existential depression and feelings of helplessness. These may have ranged from sadness to utter despair. Suicidal feelings while still in high school or younger are not uncommon in the Indigo Adult.

         Have difficulty in service-oriented jobs. Indigos resist authority and caste system of employment.

  Prefer leadership positions or working alone to team positions.

           Have deep empathy for others, yet an intolerance of stupidity.

            May be extremely emotionally sensitive including crying at the drop of a hat (no shielding) or may be the opposite and show no expression of emotion (full shielding).

          May have trouble with RAGE.

           Have trouble with systems they consider broken or ineffective, i.e. political, educational, medical, and legal.

           Frustration with or rejection of the traditional American 

            Anger at rights being taken away

             Have a burning desire to do something to change and improve the world.

           Have psychic or spiritual interest appear fairly young – in or before teen years.

            Had few if any Indigo role models

         Have strong intuition.

           Random behavior pattern or mind style – (symptoms of Attention Deficit Disorder)

          Have had psychic experiences, such as premonitions, seeing angels or ghosts, out of body experiences, hearing voices.          

 May have awareness of other dimensions and parallel realities.

           Sexually are very expressive and inventive OR may reject sexuality with intention of achieving higher spiritual connection. May explore alternative types of sexuality.    

       Seek meaning to their life and understanding about the world May seek this through religion or spirituality

You can read the the complete article here: Characteristics of the Indigo Child/Adult

Apart from these children and adults, there are also the Crystal and the Rainbow children, who have been born to take human consciousness to the next level. Here is an article that talks about all the three and how compassion can help to ease their struggles in the real world: Indigos, Crystal and the Rainbow Children

What is common among all these people is how they exhibit symptoms resembling mental illness and in many cases are prescribed medication that suppresses these symptoms AND their special gifts. A sympathetic understanding by adults and the medical profession is imperative to allow these souls to live out their true destinies.

© Lakshmi S. Menon & VOICE’nVIEWS

H is for Heightened awareness and Hidden treasures

Day EIGHT: April A-Z Blogging Challenge 2015  

“Metaphorically, having different brain wiring is like being born left-handed in a right-handed world. Society and the self-help sections in bookstores are quick to suggest right-handed solutions”. Jeff Copper, founder of Attention Talk Radio

 

Heightening Awareness and Uncovering Hidden Treasures:

Living a successful life needs skill. With practice, skill becomes second nature and the struggle a little less. As with any challenge, living with a mental health issue whether mild or severe, requires knowledge or awareness of one’s strengths and weaknesses and the will power and motivation to live by these strengths. As mentioned in one of my previous articles, C is for Creative, people whose brains are wired in a different way, usually have gifts or talents that have to be unearthed. The key word here is ‘hidden‘. Whether the affected person or the caretaker, parents, teachers, siblings and even friends, one requires to do some ‘out-of-the-box’ thinking here.

Once you acknowledge and admit to the presence of a mental health issue, and I stress this, whether mild or severe, a sense of relief sets in. At least you know what you are dealing with to some extent, and hence can make some necessary changes. This is how a heightened sense of awareness can work for you to your advantage. And then comes the next part.

Use this knowledge to encourage strengths in oneself. You might not be good in math, but you could be a wizard with words. Then go for that which comes to you naturally, build on it, perfect it and then if you want , after gaining confidence, shift gears. Use your own strengths and God-given gifts to build up your self-esteem. Let the world go at its own pace. Have the courage to discover yours. When this is done, what is hidden, emerges. It is a proven fact that when one sense (out of the five of sight, smell, touch, hearing or taste) is weak, another gets heightened. Thus blind people have an acute sense of hearing or touch and so on. So too with the brain functions related to the mind. Nature usually compensates in some manner. Look for it, search it out and develop that, instead of lamenting what is not ! There is a wonderful article that you can read on this by Jeff Copper that is titled, ‘Don’t Try Harder, Try Different‘ !

© Lakshmi S. Menon & VOICE’nVIEWS

G is for Guilt and the Gift of Grace

Day SEVEN: April A-Z Blogging  Challenge 2015

  

From GUILT to GRACE:

One of the debilitating mental factors that hurt people with mental health is the social burden they have to carry. Along with having to endure the symptoms of the illness, mild or pronounced, there is this constant pressure to be like everyone around, in terms of working, interacting, or just living each day with its challenges of adjustment. For very long, several types of mental health issues were not even recognised as problems. I have lived with people for whom the world is an unfriendly place with no one to empathise or understand, since the so-called symptoms are so hidden or not seen as symptoms at all.

In children who are intelligent and above average, there might be a lack of motivation to achieve. They might be bright but restless and without focus or obsessively focussed on something. Such children and adults are dubbed difficult, lazy, careless, intelligent but not conscientious, arrogant, wilful and so on. Such reactions from parents, teachers and adults in the case of children and from peers, spouses, colleagues in the case of adults can create a sense of guilt in the person that they may carry silently and unconsciously for a long time. The reasons for such behaviour lie in brain chemistry.

One example of this is children with mild forms of ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) or ADD (Attention Deficit Disorder). I came across an interesting article that said that in people with ADHD, certain chemicals or ‘key proteins’ that are required for human beings to experience a sense of reward and motivation are lacking in the brain. Due to the deficit in production of Dopamine in the brain, many ‘normal’ qualities are missing in these children.

New research by US brain researchers show  that ADHD is not just about abnormalities in the attention systems of the brain, that is, areas controlling attention and activity, “but abnormalities in the motivation and emotion centres as well. These deficits in the brain’s reward system may help explain clinical symptoms of ADHD, including inattention and reduced motivation, as well as the propensity for complications such as drug abuse and obesity among ADHD patients.” It goes on to say, “For far too long there has been an assumption that children with ADHD are deliberately wilful which has led to mismanagement and ultimately permanent exclusions from school.” You can read the full article here: ADHD Brain Chemistry Clue Found

For parents who sometimes hear the complaint that their children are ‘not well brought up‘, there is a pleasant catch here! You have a gifted child. These same aberrations in chemical production also make these people extremely resilient and creative. Also, sometimes it just is the creative energy seeking an outlet. In what is called ‘shared neuron pathways’, symptoms of a disorder and a child wanting an outlet may look the same. So watch out!  ‘Indeed, while many experts automatically link overexcited, impulsive, and even disruptive behavior to ADHD, there are some who believe this same conduct may simply be the earmarks of profound creativity looking for a way to flourish. 

Says an article on ADD-like behaviour, “People who don’t understand intelligence and giftedness and creativity think that if you’re smart you ought to know how to behave, and if you don’t behave you’re not smart — or you have something wrong with you — but that couldn’t be further from the truth,” says Minnesota child psychologist Deborah Ruf, PhD, National Gifted Children’s Coordinator for American Mensa and author of the book Losing Our Minds: Gifted Children Left Behind. Read here: Not all restless children are ADD 

The Gift of Grace comes from awareness. Awareness of symptoms, that these are caused by brain functions basically, that there are outlets to be creative that can help and so on. Guilt is a useless burden, especially when it has no basis other than ignorant social norms. Convert the energy expended in guilt to discover the gifts inherent within.

© Lakshmi S. Menon & VOICE’nVIEWS

F is for Facing your Fears and FREEDOM through FAITH

Day SIX: April A-Z Blogging  Challenge 2015

“Worry and fear [are] the greatest foes to [a] normal healthy physical body . . . . For thoughts are things! And they have their effect upon individuals…just as physical as sticking a pin in the hand!” — Edgar Cayce, famous medium of early 20th century, many of whose whose messages from Source during self-induced trances, on a variety of subjects, were pointers to future discoveries in science and psychology

  

Facing one’s Fears:

Worry has been described as ‘mentally created fear‘, something that the mind imagines would be like a worst- case scenario. Worry is about the future and sometimes it can turn into an obsessive anxiety. Worry often is unfounded, things ultimately may turn out better than we expected! FEAR though relates to the present.

FEAR arises from subconscious memories of past events that caused discomfort, pain or grief — something that affected us deeply in a negative manner. Our reaction to that event gets recorded in the sub-conscious aspect of the mind, where it is lost or forgotten to conscious memory. It however remains there, lurking in the background, until something activates it in the present. This something is what is called, a ‘trigger‘. Anything in the present like a person, a remark, a sight, a feeling, a situation can act as a trigger. Sometimes it could be a sound or a smell. At that time, the whole bundle of the negative memories associated with a past painful event, wells out of the subconscious and enters our conscious mind. We relive that incident which caused trauma and we react. We may spend sleepless nights afraid that something might harm us again, we may relive moments of grief or feelings of powerlessness. A fear though in the realm of the mind, can cause physical symptoms in the body. We may sweat, get a headache or have an upset stomach just by reliving fears, and these are just minor symptoms. Such is the hold that fear can have on us. What is worse is that another person may not even relate to what one is feeling, since triggers are not the same for everyone. Nightmares and ‘night terrors’ are another manifestation of fear that cannot be understood by those who do not experience it.

There are two kinds of fears: minor or immediate and long-term or major. The first could be the apprehension of a situation occurring again that causes a certain amount of discomfort. We learn to live with such fears, we somehow quell the anxiety and manage to convince ourselves that we can handle the situation as and when it arises, if it arises. And we generally do manage. This is the stuff of ordinary existence. The second is major. These are psychological and deep-rooted, like the fear of abandonment, fears of abuse, the fear of oppression or of loss, including losing one’s mind. Fears such as these have no short-term solutions. They are here to stay unless we FACE them and set ourselves FREE.

Facing of fears can be done with the help of our conscious minds and by trusting in the vast inner wisdom that lies untapped within us. One fact about fear is that though it seems to nestle within, it comes from outside. It is not a natural or inherent part of us. We can overcome it. 

To face a fear, first it has to be defined. Definition gives it a form and instead of some vague apprehension, it becomes something that can be looked at squarely. Fears might be imagined or real, but since they affect us, what is necessary is to tackle them instead of a mere scientific discussion of their origin. Meditation, hypnosis, a deep connection with your chosen form of God through prayer or worship, a connection with Nature, a relaxation with harmonious or melodious music are methods by which the inner resource of strength is tapped. Some people find their strength through creative outlets like writing, journaling, painting, dance, story telling and so on. 

FAITH or a belief in a Higher form of Consciousness, whether you call it God or Source or Universe or Tao, whether you define it in terms of religion or spirituality or neither, goes a long way in getting rid of fear. Faith connects you with your own inner version of God/Source, which is a powerhouse of Love Energy and the true cause of all healing.

  

Edgar Cayce of the early twentieth century has this to say about fear: “All disease was caused by sin, most notably the sin of fear, for that represented a lack of faith . . . . Fear is the root of most of the ills of mankind,” he said in a reading given in June of 1928. You can read the full article on what Cayce said, here: Edgar Casey on the Causes for Illness

© Lakshmi S. Menon & VOICE’nVIEWS

E is for Endurance, Emergence and Emancipation

DAY FIVE: April A-Z Blogging Challenge 2015   

“Who in the rainbow can draw the line where the violet tint ends and the orange tint begins? Distinctly we see the difference of the colors, but where exactly does the one first blendingly enter into the other? So with sanity and insanity.” Herman Melville, “Billy Budd, Sailor”

Enduring the darkness and emerging into the light: 

The seed buried in winter’s frost seems dead to outward view. Snow and frost seem to obliterate all signs of life on the ground. And yet when spring arrives, shy saplings tentatively push through the ground, life stirs again and the world changes in the blink of an eye. How much do we really know about the workings of the mind ? Psychology conducts studies on it and psychiatry treats disorders arising from it.  They are both brain-based disciplines that have brought relief to many people, by the medication or counselling they provide. However, they also have a symptomatic approach, dealing with issues as and when they arise, while the roots of the mind might lie much deeper, being embedded in that vast field of human life termed ‘consciousness‘. 

The previous post mentioned  about the ‘dark night of the soul‘, those times in one’s life when there is a sense of acute disconnection and weariness of heart and mind. Periods of darkness that seem never-ending. Coleridge describes this achingly in his poem , ‘The Rime of the Ancient Mariner’, a poem about death, decay, regeneration and atonement. 

No matter what the reason why minds may plunge into such darkness, no matter whether they are ignored or slighted, labelled or condemned, medicated or diagnosed, it is a fact that ultimately, recovery can happen only from inner reserves and mental resolve. It is possible, however acute the darkness, or long drawn out the struggle, because within the human being are reserves of power and the means to regenerate, provided one is willing. 

The mind is a mysterious entity. The ‘why‘ of the mind leads us deeper into a never-ending labyrinth, it is a trap. Leave it to the philosophers and the ‘mentalists’ to unravel it! It is better to focus on the ‘what‘ and the ‘how‘. During seasons of darkness, when sometimes even the will to live might be dimmed, do nothing and be a witness. Under the garb of darkness, the different parts of the mind somehow get organised into something new, something that has more depth and understanding and will percolate into the surface mind gradually. This time of darkness when endured, will lead to the emergence of the self in a new mould. There is light at the end of the tunnel. Emancipation is at hand. Just do not give up yet!

© Lakshmi S. Menon & VOICE’nVIEWS